Helping Your Child Settle into Nursery

Those first drop-offs can be emotional for everyone. Here are our practical tips to help your child settle in with confidence.

Nursery practitioner drawing with a child at a colourful table

The first days at nursery can be emotional for both you and your child. It is completely normal for children to take time to adjust to a new environment, new faces, and a new routine. Most children settle in well within a few weeks, and the team at Conifers will support every step of the way.

A consistent goodbye routine makes a real difference. Keep it short, warm, and positive - a hug, a simple phrase like ‘I will pick you up after snack time’, and a confident wave. Children pick up on your emotions, so the calmer and more assured you are, the easier the transition tends to be.

Talk about nursery at home in positive, curious terms. Ask open questions like ‘Who did you play with today?’ rather than ‘Did you enjoy yourself?’ - this encourages conversation and helps your child process their experiences in their own time.

If you have any concerns about how your child is settling, please speak to their key person or our nursery manager. We are always happy to chat through any worries and share how your child is getting on throughout the day.

The first days at nursery can be emotional for both you and your child. It is completely normal for children to take time to adjust to a new environment, new faces, and a new routine. Most children settle in well within a few weeks, and the team at Conifers will support every step of the way.

A consistent goodbye routine makes a real difference. Keep it short, warm, and positive - a hug, a simple phrase like ‘I will pick you up after snack time’, and a confident wave. Children pick up on your emotions, so the calmer and more assured you are, the easier the transition tends to be.

Talk about nursery at home in positive, curious terms. Ask open questions like ‘Who did you play with today?’ rather than ‘Did you enjoy yourself?’ - this encourages conversation and helps your child process their experiences in their own time.

If you have any concerns about how your child is settling, please speak to their key person or our nursery manager. We are always happy to chat through any worries and share how your child is getting on throughout the day.

Opening Hours

Monday to Friday from 7.45am - 5:45pm

17 Arrow Walk, Kings Norton, Birmingham, B38 9HP

© 2026 Conifers Day Nursery, Kings Norton

Opening Hours

Monday to Friday from 7.45am - 5:45pm

17 Arrow Walk, Kings Norton, Birmingham, B38 9HP

© 2026 Conifers Day Nursery, Kings Norton

Opening Hours

Monday to Friday from 7.45am - 5:45pm

17 Arrow Walk, Kings Norton, Birmingham, B38 9HP

© 2026 Conifers Day Nursery, Kings Norton